I lost my hat not my cool

This morning was a wonderful morning because first of all I woke rested and refreshed. After morning meditation and prayer I went straight into working out. I spoke to my children about throwing your “net on the right side of the ship and ye shall find”. John 21v6 And my daughter said “that’s like getting up on the right side of the bed”. So they were off to school and I showered and dressed. While drinking my coffee I realized I needed a hat. The navy shirt and pullover was a perfect outfit for my Detroit Tigers Hat. This is no ordinary hat; I searched for hours for the right one. It is the “on the field” model with the white piping fitted with the breathable performance material. I purchased this hat on a recent trip to Detroit for which the occasion was to bury an Uncle. So I am sentimentally attached and as hats go this hat is superb. I go to the closet to retrieve the perfect topping for my outfit and it is gone. The search is on. Clear the entire closet, look in my son’s room, go check all the cars; go back to the closet, and still no hat. Now I must interrupt my wife’s beautiful morning and she starts to help me. She questions my memory and then stands on something in the closet to get a better look. When I saw her up there and I felt my heart rate increase I knew the enemy had me looking on the wrong side of the boat and it had nothing to do with the hat. I was doominating the morning and had plans to dominate the entire day, now this hiccup was ruining my attitude. So I asked my wife to terminate the search and continue on her wonderful day. I placed my navy blue Callaway hat with the white rim on my head and said, “God is perfect” and proceeded enjoying the day. Throughout the day the thought of where the Tigers hat may be crossed my mind but, I put it out of my mind and did not allow it to determine the course of my day. So If you lose your hat do not lose your cool.

The Golden Leader: Marty Scorsese

I was reading an article in Fast Company the magazine about Martin Scorsese that was about his creative side and how he used it to inspire the world. As I read it dawned on me that he had extraordinary leadership skills. These skills could translate in to leaders in any arena. The first skill that was immediately evident was the question he asked before they got started taping.

Project your best image
The question he asked the interviewer was, “Do I look like Quasimodo? Am I sitting too far down in the chair?” Not only did he consider his dress, which was his classic black blazer and slacks with his immaculately pressed crisp dress shirt on which he never buttons the top button to add a hint of flamboyance to his all business demeanor but he considered how he sat. I noticed this in his photo shoot and I noticed it his acceptance speech at the Golden Globe Awards. From now on decide the image you desire to project and work hard to enhance it.

Never let money dictate your passion
The article mentions films that Scorsese did that were well-funded and did not perform well at the box office and others that were sparsely funded and that he had a wonderful time making. Money greases the wheels but creativity and passion are the wheels and the engine so do not let the money or those who possess it control your passion. Part of the article deals with Scorsese’s unwillingness to deal with the Hollywood executives versus his need to support his family a balancing act all people who call themselves creative must rationalize in their own mind. In the end the right balance leads to freedom.

Leaders drive the bus
The article opened my eyes to just how many different parts and team members were involved in creating a film but it also highlighted the importance of the director’s vision being the driving force. He commented on how his team directed him to the perfect location in one film, though still driving he made the suggested turn. And then there is the length of his films which on average is 2 hours on which he generally stays the course even when the team is screaming – turn now. He said “But sometimes something needs time to work on a viewer.” Leaders must realize this same fact with their vision and stay patient and be the standard bearer for their organization.

Be relentless for your creative vision
A major part of why Martin Scorsese is considered great in his profession is that he understands the spiritual side of the battle.

He said “there is an essence to the project that you must protect. You cannot make concessions on that, the story cannot be tampered with past that point; you have to fight off every power or force around you.”

He understands that is not the people that he is fighting, but a spirit of apathy, commercialism and lack of imagination. These are areas that every leader has to war against. They show their ugly heads in a myriad of places and people. When you know your core values and vision do not allow them to be tampered with by anyone. Go be relentlessly creative.

Here’s the link. http://www.fastcompany.com/magazine/161/martin-scorsese

Do you like what is in the mirror?

• Looking at yourself meticulously takes a calm spirit so that you do not get overwhelmed
• Improvements are easy if you are honest about the image in the mirror
• As long as you are alive you can change

The mirror is a terrific place for growth and analysis. Take an honest look at your habits and actions to determine what areas need work. Once the areas of improvement are identified then you must be methodical in improving or upgrading them. While it is terrific to discover challenges it is easy to become overwhelmed with how to fix them or even if they can be fixed. First calm your spirit and lay out a short term plan that gets the ball rolling. Some steps that you take to improve your organizations may not have immediately visible results. It is still okay to look in the mirror because now you have an expectancy of change. Hope coupled with the work necessary increases faith. As long as you are alive, you can change. Old ways, old habits or even current organizational cultures do not hamper future appearances. Take the vital steps to morph into the picture of success. The Patient one welcomes true analysis and uses the findings for the good of all.

What do you see in your mirror?

Drive past your problems

There are some levels you will not get to if you do not use your passing gear.
Queen Janetta

When traveling on the road of life there are many people who use the expression, “I am just holding it in the road.” This means that they are ignoring distractions and doing their part to operate efficiently. In this mode they will not get noticed for doing bad but they also will not get noticed for doing good. They will achieve their goal which is to get go around in circles without getting noticed. For all achievers this is a dangerous attitude that opens the door for apathy. If we are driving a car on the Freeway of Life then at some point to get around the bad drivers or large vehicles slowing the process for everyone then we need to step on the gas and make it around these obstacles. One of my vehicles does not have an extra gear for this purpose and the other has one that is superior. This just shows me if I am truly interested in competing at the next level I should choose the right equipment. So map your strategy, step on the gas and get back on the open road.

Big Results in small steps

Confidence can be added through small successful steps. Progress of any kind extends your patience. All marathons began with one step forward. Some dreams are lofty but with a good plan and a lot of small steps you can reach the apex. Humans constantly search for the fast immediate cure to appear but leave off the fact that most significant contributions need lots of patient processes. Beauty in the journey becomes evident when you pay attention to the details. Details like going to obscure gatherings that will educate you on how to perfect your craft. Details shore up cracks in your thinking that could side track momentum. It takes a calm mind to enjoy the miniscule thoughts and pleasures knowing that all things benefit greater goals. One solid way to add confidence is to improve responses to nagging issues. Your response determines your character. Daily monitor physical and oral responses because these are little actions that promote big feelings. Change habits to mimic who you want to become. If your desires are royal then your habits should reflect this. There are no vacations from improvements. Once a goal or dream is achieved immediate recalculation is necessary. Slipping back into old habits or thought processes can make victories fleeting. Enjoy the progress and add more expectations. There is no limit, one step at a time.