Do you have friends or family that have such great value to you that their flaws are inconsequential to you? Can you imagine a life where you do not see the flaws in others? If the mindset of not seeing others flaws is to work, you have to continue to rid yourself of internal flaws. Remove and reduce the shortcomings in your life and the downfalls of others will be a blur. This work of ignoring flaws in others will cause you to leave their problems to them and God. You then can focus on becoming a greater you.
If we act like God and cover the nakedness of our friends and family there is no time for petty arguments. The Bible has a major prescription for the abolishment of flaws it is called LOVE. There are many types of Love, but the Love that covers sin is one that is gained by tapping into the heart of God through prayer.
8 Now when I passed by thee, and looked upon thee, behold, thy time was the time of love; and I spread my skirt over thee, and covered thy nakedness: yea, I sware unto thee, and entered into a covenant with thee, saith the Lord God, and thou becamest mine.
9 Then washed I thee with water; yea, I thoroughly washed away thy blood from thee, and I anointed thee with oil. Ezekiel 16:8-9
God values us so much that He not only covers us, but He enters into a covenant with us. And this covenant washes away all sins that we create here on earth.
Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins
Generate love between you and the Father and demonstrate Love between you and those close to you. Demonstrate your Love/Charity without a grudge or complaining in order to receive the reward. Charity in the following verses can be interpreted as Love (Agape LOVE).
7 But the end of all things is at hand: be ye therefore sober, and watch unto prayer.
8 And above all things have fervent charity among yourselves: for charity shall cover the multitude of sins.
9 Use hospitality one to another without grudging. 1 Peter 4:7-9
Most of our friends and family members have flaws that are evident because we are close to them. But why stir up strife when you can stir up Love. See those close to you as God sees them, washed, clean and whole.