Category Archives: Patience

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Please Be Patient with Me

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I included all the words to Dr. James Cleveland’s song, that is best sang by Albetina Walker because they have been in my heart since my mother played the record over and over and over on Sunday afternoons. Read the words and use them as your own.

Please be patient with me,
God is not through with me yet.

Please be patient with me,
God is not through with me yet.

When God gets through with me,
when God gets through with me,
I shall come forth,
I shall come forth like pure gold.

Verse
If you should see me and I’m not walking right,
and if you should hear me and I’m not talking right;
please remember what God has done for me,
when He gets through with me,
I’ll be what He wants me to be.

Normally I focus the Science of Patience on the Individual right now this is an outward request you should make to your friends and families.

” I’m still alive so the Lord must have me here for a reason”. 

This olde wives tale has some merit. . WE are all put here for the glory of God therefore , He still has a purpose for us living.

 

Luke 20:38  For He is not a God of the dead, but of the living: for all live unto Him

This letter is to those friends and family that ask ” when are you going to get it right?, or When are you going to get married or when are you going to write that book?  We all hear it and brush it off. It is easy for the doubt to creep in when you hear it or perceive it.  This is when we should say ‘Please be patient with me God is not through with me yet. If it really annoying you may want to sing it.

Make the most of your life and maximize your days but be satisfied with your current existence.  There is no time like the present.  Remember most of the people who question your progress actually care and are invested in your success.

You are here for a reason, do not be afraid to tell the world . Tell the world what you are going to do and go do it.  You are a  patient leader and nothing will stop you from dominating. The Science of Patience “knows that the Creator is in control ” Stretch yourself but do not get out of your element trying to please people. Please God and you will be fulfilled.

No matter what people think of you remember you are not a finished work.  There is still more to come.  Another chapter is being written as we speak.

Potter’s Clay

Jeremiah 18:6

O house of Israel cannot I do with you as the potter? Saith the Lord Behold as the clay is in the potters hand so you are ye in mine hand o house of Israel

In what area do you need to ask those around you to “Please be patient with me?”

 

 

 

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Indispensable Asset

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Make your business indispensable to the marketplace. There are some products and services that can be considered indispensable due to their unique and proprietary nature. Most others have competition and can be replaced. To put yourself in the category of indispensable you have to create and mold your product or service to fit your customer in ways unique to only them.

Tannehill State park

Tannehill State park

Listen

To know your client is to listen. There are limitations to every business but if you listen to what the customer is asking for then you can mold your business to fit comfortably with your clients desires.

Anticipate

After you listen then you will be able to anticipate the needs of your customers. This is helpful and it gives the client an unconscious rebuttal when the competition presents similar products and services.  The response will be, “my current provider knows our needs and is always ready to meet them.”

Recreate

Always evolve into a higher form of yourself. While staying consistent is beneficial if you recreate areas of your business bigger opportunities will arise.  Now you are not only the steady provider but the fresh idea merchant. Recreate yourself daily and make your business the fresh face of your industry.

 

How have you made yourself indispensable?

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Civil Rights Movement: Stop Violence with the gun and with the tongue

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 the Dream lives

This was my first year going to the Dr. Martin Luther King Unity Breakfast in Birmingham, Alabama to support the Civil Rights Movement.  I have no clue to the reason of why I did not attend this wonderful event.  My son William V wanted to go and was pleased to get up early.  I asked why he wanted to go and he said, “so I can be with you dad.”

 

When we walked in we heard the wonderful voices of the choir that transformed the convention center into a Baptist Church. This 27thh Annual event lived up to the high standards of the SCLC.  The first thing that was evident is that this was a celebration of the past triumphs of Dr. King and the people of the Civil Rights movement and boost towards the future of possibilities.

The Keynote speaker was Dr. Charles Steele, SCLC President and CEO, his presence demanded attention.  His commitment to the organization and people of all creeds showed in the first few sentences of his speech.  He mentioned “Birmingham to Bethlehem” which is a campaign to bring nonviolence to Bethlehem and Jerusalem. He said he was in a meeting where a Palestinian man thanked him for holding the banner of nonviolence because, before their encounter the man did not realize that there was an alternative to violent conflict resolution.

Mr. Steele also mentions a “Poor Peoples Campaign “in Paris, France due to the overwhelming unemployment in that country.   This interests me because I set and marched with the original leader of the Poor Peoples Campaign, Hosea Williams.  Mr. Williams was a pioneer of the Civil Rights Movement and to watch him work was masterful. His network of dignitaries and homeless was immense.  I think the SCLC should involve Jay Z and Kanye West as well as the down trodden.

 

In his meeting with President Gorbachev, Mr. Steele said the President asked him, “If the Dream was realized,” I just want you to pause there and ask that question that yourself.  If Yes, then celebrate and get back to work. And if No, just get back to work.

 

He told of his fundraising prowess and how he steered the organization to receive 20 million dollars in a 3 year period which led to the erection of a new office building.  It also set a secure foundation for the SCLC’s future in the Civil Rights Movement. This is a long way from the days of Dr. Fred Shuttlesworth. I wrote a post “Standing on the Shoulders of Giants.” When Dr. Steele met Roland Martin, CNN analyst, Mr. Martin congratulated him and said “the building is good, but what are you doing for the people?” This question adds to the question from President Gorbachev and should make all of us who live the Dream focus on actions.

 

I have a more definitive answer to why I have not attended the Unity Breakfast.  The answer is that I was enjoying the Dream and now I need to help others fight for their Dream.

 

How will you help the Civil Rights Movement? How are you helping others achieve the dream?

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Don’t give up on your New Year’s resolution

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I am excited to introduce the first guest blogger for www.patiencetodominate.com . LaTasha Diana is originally from Birmingham, Alabama and currently works in the social service field. She has a wonderful heart for people and God. Her walk is inspiring and uplifting. You can find her work at www.hisprincessdiana.blogspot.com She enjoys helping others, playing word games, reading and cooking in her spare time.

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I was motivated by a post on the blog, The Writeous Babe Project called “Motivation Monday: Three Words for 2013.” Her challenge was to identify three words that would set the tone of the coming year. I interpreted this blog as identifying values/attitudes that I would like to exercise to set the tone for the New Year. The three values/attitudes that I thought of were as follows.

1. Contentment

The dictionary defines “contentment” as “mentally or emotionally satisfied with things as they are” or “assenting to or willing to accept circumstances, a proposed course of action, etc”.

The Apostle Paul went through some trying situations in his life. But in the midst of him circumstances, he learned the importance of being content.

A popular verse that comes to mind is Philippians 4 – “I rejoiced greatly in the Lord that at last you renewed your concern for me. Indeed, you were concerned, but you had no opportunity to show it. I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” (verses 10-13 – New International Version)

Paul knew that the people were concerned about him and he was able to find joy even though, the people were not able to physically express their concern for him. And that is what contentment means to me, being able to find joy regardless of how the circumstances play out.

2. Commitment

The dictionary defines commitment as “to give in trust or charge; consign.”

So often, I’ve signed up for things and did not follow through. And as a result of doing so, I felt really bad and had nothing but regret. I do not want that to continue to be the story of my life. I’ve grown this year in this area, but I’ve learned it is better to say “no” than to commit to something and not follow through.
A verse that comes to mind for this is Proverbs 3:3-4 “Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man.” (New International Version)

Commitment to me is more than just following through with what I say I will do but, also being a woman of my word, having integrity. Latasha Diana

3. Courage

The dictionary defines courage as “the quality of mind or spirit that enables a person to face difficulty, danger, pain, etc., without fear; bravery.”

I think this goes along with the first two. In order to be committed to something, I have to know in my heart that I am able to carry it out. Again, I’ve done things and not followed through and when I look back, it was because I did not think that I could do. But God never places a desire in our heart or gives us talents that he thinks we will not be able to fulfill. It might be difficult at first, but I’ve learned that as I continue to trust God and walk in obedience to HIM not man, He will make my path clear.

This reminds me of one of my favorite scriptures, Proverbs 3:5-6 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight. (New International Version)

Being a Christian requires courage! Faith is not knowing how situations will turn out but believing that the situation will work out for the best. God has promised to encourage my heart in every situation.

 

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Make God Mighty

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God is Beautiful

Make God Mighty sounds weird just saying it. God is mighty all by Himself, why would He need you or me to help Him be mighty?

Luke 19:40 And he answered and said unto them, I tell you that, if these should hold their peace, the stones would immediately cry out.”

 

American Heritage Dictionary

Might:  Having or showing great power, skill strength or force

 

God always possesses the might to make all things possible and He will show this power when we invite Him into our lives.

 

3 ways we can make God mighty

  1. Act like He is watching

If all of your actions are done with the knowledge that the Father is watching then you will be more in line with the Father’s will.  Others will see your love walk and know that you serve a Mighty God. You make God Mighty when you are in His Will.

2.  Speak His word in every situation

Speaking His word is easy in the morning, at night and when we go to church. But when someone wrongly accuses you and it causes you to defend your honor unnecessarily? We need to speak the word of God more in these situations.

3.  Walk in the Might of God

This differs from acting like he is watching and speaking His word because walking in His word requires faith not obedience. Walk in His might and you will get up early to work on your craft. And when you began to walk out on faith the mighty God will show you another level of His ability.

 

How will you make God Mighty?

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Immeasurable Week: How do you count life?

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Immeasurable Week

True Life is skewed towards how you think on a matter. Look at your life and understand how and what you use to measure joy, peace and success.

Are you counting the right or wrong thing?

When your efforts do not add up…

Making money and life is taking it all…

Are you behind and have no visible progress?

How should you count?

Count hugs – not sales

Count smiles – not profits

Count your physically healthy days

Count the number of days you lived in a free society

Count the days you lived in mental stability

Psalm 121
I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help

 

Why count when, you can be thankful?

Why count when, you can give gifts?

Joy comes from knowing that God wishes you to prosper in all situations.

Do you wonder how does God count?

 

A friend came and got me off the side of the Highway, that counts

Having breakfast at a cafe with my wife, that counts

Teaching my son to change a tire, that counts

Sharing French fries with my daughter, that counts

 

Learn how to count and have an immeasurable week! How do you count?

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15 days to Jump Start you New Year

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As we age our shapes and our egos take a beating because of our habits.  Healthy living becomes an important part of our lives.  For me one of my revolving New Year’s resolutions is to lose weight, eat healthier and exercise more.  This year I am going to start early and I challenge you to join with me.  During the holidays season there will be amble opportunities to turn to bad habits.  We have to use these moments to define our healthy future.

 

  1. Stretch and Meditate

Every morning for 30 minutes warm up your mind and body

 

  1. Use breakfast as a healthy launch pad

Eat more fruits and grains

Take your vitamins

Prepare a healthy lunch at home- Saves calories and money

  1. Work out or find a heart rat raising activity

Add another 45 minute workout

If working out is not your thing PLAN smart activities

  • Walking the mall
  • Riding a bicycle
  • Dancing with the children
  • Working in the Yard (like I will do today… yeah pine straw)

Now here is where I will seem to go off message.  Eat what you would like after the second daily workout.  Just eat in moderation.  Have a healthy snack at night and you will meet your goals.  Life is full of good things to eat and fun ways to maintain your health.  Combine the two facets of life and your soul will have harmony.

My goal is to lose 5 pounds in 20 days.  What is your goal?

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Christmas list for the week before Christmas

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It is the week before Christmas and you don’t know what to do. 

There is excitement in the air and plenty of things to chew.

 

Well chew on this most of you still have to work and get things accomplished.  It is better to get these things handled early and often.  You cannot procrastinate this week or there is a reward of guilt next week and you don’t want that.  Here are some tips for to make your week better.

1.       Get your house work done

You see it… and you said you would clean it up or fix it. Don’t let it sit there and call your name all during the Christmas week. Move now and peace will be in your house.

2.       Live out of the extras

 

Giving is good, Debt is bad.  Make sure those you love do not send you over the Fiscal Cliff (an upcoming post). We all have a little extra make sure that is our gift giving money. Let your joy be in the overflow.

 3.       Handle all of your business early

Make your calls at the first part of the week.  Don’t set any meetings late in the week.  Go buy your food items now. Pay your bills so you will not forget.  The early bird gets to drink eggnog first.

4.       Realize your limits

Do not promise too much.  If you are not sure you can make it please say this up front.  You are one individual and your friends understand this.   On the other hand do not misuse their kindness show up for the ones you care about.

5.       Slow walk Friday

Take it slow everyone else will.  This is the part that takes patience. You didn’t think I would leave patience out of this equation, did you? Friday, will be great if you have followed the previous suggestions.  Take it easy and add some holiday cheer to your eggnog and walk slow.

 

Your holiday will be grand because you have friends and family that love you. Your Christmas will be grand because Jesus loves.  Make the most of this week because you love yourself.

 

What are some things you can do to make this week go smooth?

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Patience has no fear

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  • Fear and faith cannot exist together
  • Children of God must act on the will of their Father

 

 

Patience has no fear because it knows the outcome will be delightful.  Fear comes to move you off of your path of great accomplishment.  Once I was afraid to commit to working out because, I thought the time would take away from my family. Then I questioned if an unhealthy lifestyle would take away years at the end of my life or cause countless days at the doctor’s office.  Fear has an unstable foundation and will crumble with careful consideration.  A person can live with fear so long, that it becomes comfortable to them.  We let fear speak to us in daily activities, so much that we think fear is our unconscious mind attempting to protect us. We must use our faith, our abilities and the Almighty to combat this enemy.  In the canvas of the mind fear and faith cannot co-exist, one will dominate.  Faith requires action, fear promotes inaction.  When decisions arise today ask for wisdom to recognize when you are bowing down to the calamitous reports of fear.

 

Strive to be a faith giant.  Faith giants move to different states to pursue dreams. Faith giants call businesses with ideas to sell and have no prior experience.  Faith giants claim debt freedom while possessing a horrid debt to income ratio.  God helps faith giants and those of little faith but the more your faith is evident the more He has to work with.  The Bible says,

“There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.”  1 John 4:18

 

So love yourself, love people and love the Creator who continually supports you.  Repel fear and be patient for your dreams.

How have you overcome fear recently?

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Confession for protection: Psalm 91

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The following post is a prayer adaptation that I heard a long time ago.  It is a way to personalize Psalm 91.  There is a link to the original King James Version for your comparison.  I will highlight the altered portions.  You can say this in whenever you spend time with God it also good for your children use it as a prayer.

Psalm 91

I dwell in the secret place of the most High and shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.

2 I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in Him will I trust.

3 Surely He shall deliver me from the snare of the fowler, and from the noisome pestilence.

4 He shall cover me with His feathers, and under His wings shall I trust: His truth shall be my shield and buckler.

5 I shall not be afraid for the terror by night; nor for the arrow that flies by day;

6 Nor for the pestilence that walks in darkness; nor for the destruction that wastes at noonday.

7 A thousand shall fall at my side, and ten thousand at my right hand; but it shall not come near me

8 Only with my eyes shall I behold and see the reward of the wicked.

9 Because I have made the Lord, which is my refuge, even the most High, my habitation;

10 There shall no evil befall me, neither shall any plague come near my dwelling.

11 For He shall give His angels charge over me, to keep me in all my ways.

12 They shall bear me up in their hands, lest I dash my foot against a stone.

13 I shalt tread upon the lion and adder: the young lion and the dragon shall I trample under my feet.

14 Because I have set my love upon God, therefore will He deliver me: He will set me on high, because I have known His name.

15 I shall call upon Him, and He will answer me: He will be with me in trouble; He will deliver me, and honor me.

16 With long life will He satisfy me, and show me His Great salvation.

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